My ex-wife refuses to let me visit my children despite a visitation judgment — how do I enforce it?

A common question prepared by our teamCustody, Alimony & Visitation 1

Translated from Arabic.

I separated from my wife about a year ago, and the Personal Status Court in Riyadh issued a judgment granting me visitation with my three children one day a week, including an overnight stay. In the first months, the visits went normally, but for the past two months she has been making various excuses — once that the children are ill, another time that they are at her family's — and she does not answer my calls. I do not want to escalate the matter in front of the children, but I do not know the legal steps to enforce the judgment, or whether her refusal could affect her custody.

Lawyers' answers (1)

KSA Lawyers editorial team

A general editorial answer prepared by our team

Translated from Arabic.

A visitation judgment issued by the Personal Status Court is an enforceable instrument binding on the custodial parent, and repeatedly refusing to allow visits without an acceptable excuse is a breach of the judgment that can be addressed through the enforcement courts under the Enforcement Law.

We advise handling the matter in an organised and documented way from the outset. You can follow these steps:

1. Document each refusal with dates, messages and any witnesses, and keep a copy of the judgment and the visitation deed. 2. Submit an application to enforce the visitation judgment electronically through Najiz, and the application will be referred to the competent Enforcement Court. 3. The enforcement judge will issue an order requiring the custodial parent to allow the visits, and may specify that handover and collection take place at one of the approved centres for enforcing visitation and custody judgments, which are set up to reduce the impact of the dispute on the children. 4. If the refusal continues, the enforcement judge has the power to take whatever legal measures he considers appropriate to compel the refusing party, which may extend to penalties he determines under the Enforcement Law.

As for repeated excuses such as illness, a genuine emergency excuse may be accepted if proven, with the visit rescheduled, but repeated excuses without evidence fall within the judge's discretion.

Regarding the effect of the refusal on custody, the Personal Status Law makes the best interests of the child the core standard, and harming the child's relationship with his father may be among the matters the court considers in a claim to remove or transfer custody. However, this requires a separate claim before the Personal Status Court and clear proof, and it does not follow automatically from the refusal alone.

Before escalating, it may be useful to try an amicable solution through the family reconciliation and settlement services available online, to protect the children's psychological stability, without giving up your right to enforcement if this does not succeed.

The outcome varies according to the circumstances of each case and the documents submitted. The KSA Lawyers team therefore recommends consulting a lawyer specialising in personal status cases to review the judgment deed and documents and determine the most appropriate action for your situation.

Answers are general legal information based on what the asker described. They aren't binding legal advice and don't replace a licensed lawyer who has reviewed the documents.